Giving a Knife as a Gift: The Penny Custom, Which Knife, Budget and Christmas

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In short

  • Yes, you can give a knife as a gift. By old custom, the person who receives it hands back a small coin, so the knife counts as bought and does not "cut" the relationship.
  • If in doubt, give an 8-inch chef's knife or a 7-inch santoku: these are the two blades a home cook uses every day.
  • At Damascus Knife, a chef's knife costs $99 to $149, at or below the US market median of $149 (Damascus Knife Price Survey, n = 80), with free tracked shipping and import duties included.
  • For Christmas 2026, order by Tuesday, December 1. Returns are accepted for 30 days from delivery, not from the day the gift is opened.

Yes, a kitchen knife makes a good gift, as long as you know the custom: the recipient gives the giver a coin, usually a penny, and the gift becomes a symbolic purchase. After that, it comes down to three simple choices: the blade shape for the person, the budget, and the series whose handle matches their taste.

Is giving a knife as a gift bad luck?

Giving a knife as a gift is bad luck according to an old and widespread superstition: the blade is said to sever the relationship between giver and recipient. The usual fix is a coin. The recipient pays the giver a penny, so the knife is bought rather than given, and the bond stays intact.

Wikipedia's article on knives, citing Jacqueline Simpson's A Dictionary of English Folklore (Oxford University Press), sums up the belief: a knife given as a gift severs the relationship, so something such as a small coin is exchanged to make it a "payment." Its page on wedding superstitions adds that a knife or a knife set is considered an unlucky wedding present, because it signifies a broken relationship.

The custom is not only Western. In Taiwan, a gift of knives or scissors can read as a hint that the giver wants to end the relationship, and the recipient answers with a small sum, such as a one-dollar coin, so the gift is technically bought.

Where the belief started is not documented. The "Viking" or "medieval" origin stories found on many knife retailer blogs cite no verifiable source, so we do not repeat them.

How to do it

  • Tape a penny to the box or keep one in your pocket.
  • When the gift is opened, the recipient hands the penny back to you. The amount does not matter, only the gesture.
  • If the person has never heard of the custom, tell the story: it is often the part of the gift people remember.

Which knife to give, person by person

The right knife to give depends on how the person cooks, not on how skilled you assume they are. An 8-inch chef's knife and a 7-inch santoku cover nearly every task; a nakiri, a slicing knife or a petty santoku is a better gift for a home cook who already owns a good chef's knife.

ForSuggested knifeWhyDamascus Knife price
Beginner cookSantoku 7"Shorter and taller than a chef's knife, easy to control$99 (Marea, Cobalt, Carmin, Cosmos)
Serious home cook with a chef's knifeNakiri, slicing knife or 8" kiritsukeA blade shape they do not have yet$99 to $159
Small kitchen, small cutting boardPetty santoku 5" or utility knife 5"Less blade to store and handle$79 to $129
Left-handed cookAny knife in the catalogDouble bevel: the edge cuts the same in either handFrom $69
Meat loverSlicing knife 10", boning knife 5.5" or 6"Clean slices of roasts and turkey, trimming around bones$79 to $159
Vegetable loverNakiri 6.5" or 7"Flat edge that meets the board along its full length$99 to $149

For a beginner, the choice usually comes down to santoku or chef's knife; our comparison santoku vs chef knife explains both shapes. If you know nothing about the person's habits, the chef's knife is the safe default: see our Damascus chef knives.

For a left-handed cook, there is no special version to look for. All 56 knives in the Damascus Knife catalog have a double-bevel edge, sharpened on both sides. Only traditional single-bevel Japanese knives (kataba) come in separate right-hand and left-hand versions.

Weight matters too. According to the Damascus Knife catalog, the Magma 8" chef's knife weighs 175 g (6.2 oz), against 242 g (8.5 oz) for the Iris 8" chef's knife and 240 g (8.5 oz) for the Cosmos. For someone who prefers a light knife, Magma is the lightest chef's knife with a listed weight.

For the meat lover, our Damascus meat knives collect slicing knives, boning knives, cleavers and the Iris 9" butcher knife, a natural pick before Thanksgiving carving. For someone who mostly cooks vegetables, a nakiri is the most useful gift after the chef's knife.

How much should you spend on a knife gift?

A Damascus chef's knife sells for a median of $149 at US direct-to-consumer stores, according to our October 2026 price survey, and about one listing in four is priced at $100 or less. At Damascus Knife, prices run from $69 for a paring knife to $159 for the Magma slicing knife.

Damascus Knife Price Survey · October 2026

According to the Damascus Knife Price Survey (October 2026, 529 single-knife listings from 15 US direct-to-consumer stores), a Damascus chef's knife with an 8 to 8.7-inch blade (20 to 22 cm) sells for a median of $149 (n = 80). 22 of those 80 listings (27.5%) are priced at $100 or less, and 44 (55.0%) at $150 or less. 50.9% of all single-knife listings show a crossed-out compare-at price.

BudgetWhat you can give from Damascus Knife
Under $80Paring knife 3" or 3.5" ($69, Marea, Cobalt, Carmin), utility knife 5" or boning knife 5.5" ($79), Marea honing rod ($79)
$80 to $100Chef's knife 8" to 9.5" ($99, Marea, Cobalt, Carmin, Cosmos), santoku 7" ($99), bread knife ($89, Marea, Cobalt, Carmin), Iris petty santoku 5" ($99), Iris paring knife ($89)
$100 to $130Iris series with abalone shell: chef's knife, kiritsuke, santoku, nakiri ($129); Azur utility knife ($119); Magma utility knife ($129)
$130 to $170Magma copper series: chef's knife, santoku, nakiri ($149), slicing knife ($159); Azur turquoise series ($149); or a Marea chef's knife $99 plus a Marea paring knife $69 ($168, two separate items)

What that price buys: a Damascus blade with a stainless 10Cr15CoMoV core rated 60 ± 2 HRC by the manufacturer, easy to care for even for someone new to this kind of knife with free tracked shipping and import duties included. Prices by steel grade are in our article how much does a good Damascus knife cost.

Picking a series to match their taste

The seven Damascus Knife series share the same steel; what sets them apart is the handle, the blade pattern and the price. Choosing a series means choosing a color and a material: copper, turquoise, wood with blue or red resin, abalone shell, or galaxy resin.

SeriesHandleLayers (stated)For someone who likes
MagmaBlack G10, resin and copper mesh37, copper "diamond" patternBlack, metal, bold lines
AzurBrown marbled resin, turquoise and brass ring37Jewelry, turquoise, Southwestern style
MareaBurl wood and blue resin67Wood and the ocean
IrisAbalone shell under resin67Shimmer, fine materials
CobaltBurl wood and midnight-blue honeycomb resin67Dark tones, deep blue
CarminBurl wood and red resin67Red, a warm kitchen
CosmosBlue marbled "galaxy" epoxy resin67Space, bright colors

The layer count is a manufacturer figure; it changes the pattern on the blade, not the stated hardness, which is the same across every series (60 ± 2 HRC). Look at their kitchen instead: butcher-block counters suit Marea or Carmin, a black-and-steel kitchen suits Magma. Every series is in our Damascus knives collection.

Christmas 2026: the last day to order

To receive a Damascus Knife order before Christmas 2026 in the United States, order by Tuesday, December 1, the day after Cyber Monday. The date comes from our worst-case timing: 1 to 3 business days of processing, then 8 to 14 business days in transit, with free tracked shipping and import duties and taxes included.

The math: an order placed on Tuesday, December 1 ships by Friday, December 4 at the latest, and 14 business days in transit lead to Thursday, December 24. In the fastest case, it arrives around December 14. After December 1, we can no longer promise delivery before Christmas Eve, so ordering over Thanksgiving weekend leaves the most margin.

If you order several knives, they may arrive in separate packages. You get a tracking number by email for each shipment.

Returns: 30 days from delivery

At Damascus Knife, a knife can be returned within 30 days from delivery. For a gift, the key point is when that clock starts: the 30 days run from the day the package reaches you, not from the day the gift is unwrapped on Christmas morning.

In practice, a knife delivered on November 20 can be returned until about December 20, before Christmas. A knife delivered on December 14 can be returned until mid-January. If you are unsure about the model, ordering in late November leaves more room after the holidays than ordering in early November.

Three conditions apply:

  • Contact us first; we email you the return address.
  • The knife must be unused and in its original packaging. Someone who tests the edge on a tomato can no longer return it: until they are sure, they should look at it and hold it, without cutting.
  • Returns are free: we send you a prepaid return label.

The knife ships in its original packaging. Damascus Knife does not offer gift wrap, gift cards or engraving: bring your own paper and your own penny.

No knife gifts to minors through our store

Damascus Knife sells only to customers aged 18 and over, and placing an order confirms that you are 18 or older. A knife ordered from us should therefore not be given to a minor, even a teenager who loves to cook.

Our knives are kitchen tools, sold for culinary use. For a young cook, wait until they turn 18 or give them something other than the blade.

Once the knife is given, care is part of the gift: hand wash, dry right away, no dishwasher. You can send our guide Damascus knife care and sharpening along with it.

Our full gift selection (sets, a chef knife from each series, abalone handles) is gathered in our Damascus knife gift ideas.

Frequently asked questions

Why do you give a penny with a knife gift?

An old superstition says a knife given as a gift severs the relationship between giver and recipient. When the recipient pays a penny back, the knife counts as bought rather than given, so the bond is not cut. Wikipedia, citing A Dictionary of English Folklore, describes the same exchange of a small coin as a token payment. Where the belief started is not documented.

Who gives the penny when you give a knife?

The recipient gives the penny to the giver. To make it easy, many givers tape a penny to the box, and the recipient hands it back when the gift is opened. The value does not matter: any small coin works, because the point is that the knife has been paid for.

What is a good knife gift for a home cook?

If you do not know what the cook already owns, an 8-inch chef's knife is the safest choice. If they already have one, give a shape they are missing: a nakiri for vegetables, a 10-inch slicing knife for roasts and turkey, or a kiritsuke. At Damascus Knife, these knives cost $99 to $159 depending on the series.

How much should I spend on a Damascus knife gift?

According to the Damascus Knife Price Survey (October 2026, 529 listings from 15 US stores), a Damascus chef's knife with an 8 to 8.7-inch blade sells for a median of $149, and 27.5% of listings are $100 or less. At Damascus Knife, a Marea, Cobalt, Carmin or Cosmos chef's knife or santoku costs $99, Iris $129, and Magma or Azur $149.

Can you give knives as a wedding gift?

Yes, but weddings are where the superstition is strongest: a knife or knife set is considered an unlucky wedding present because it signifies a broken relationship. Bring a penny for the couple to hand back together. For a couple who cooks together, a chef's knife and a paring knife, bought as two separate items, cover most of the work.

What if they don't like the knife?

At Damascus Knife, a knife can be returned within 30 days from delivery to the buyer, if it is unused and in its original packaging. Contact us first for the return address; returns are free (prepaid label). The clock starts at delivery, not at unwrapping, so ordering very early leaves less room after the holidays.

Updated October 27, 2026 · Method: prices from the Damascus Knife catalog as of 10/27/2026; medians from the Damascus Knife Price Survey (collected 10/21/2026, 529 single-knife listings from 15 US direct-to-consumer stores, displayed prices in $); Christmas deadline calculated from the worst case of our delivery times.